Ok I can hear everyone yelling at me to not send the letter.

Are there any boundaries I can set at this time?

We have a joint checking account. Should I close it?

What about her cell phone? Should I stop paying the bill?

What about the car? Should I stop paying the note?

These thoughts plague me, I don't know how to set proper boundaries in this relationship.

M-41
W-46
T- 17 years
M- 13 yrs
SS - 25 SD- 22 D 11
ILYBNILWY - 6/6/15
Status - DBing, GAL