A couple questions:

1. My W spending quite a bit of money. She say I have spent too much. I have it all tracked. Do I share that with her? It's a joint account, theoretically it is in her best interest to know what is actually going on with a joint account.

2. Her atty is terrible at replying. W says W may not be getting the emails from her atty that my atty is sending. My atty says she can't send anything directly to W due to the OFP. Do I dare have my mom give them to her to keep things moving? Maybe a question for my atty.