Originally Posted By: Cadet
Originally Posted By: NateM
Originally Posted By: coffee_
Don't leave, it is the worse thing I could have done, I am now in a mess where we leave at different times.


Hence the reason why I should not send the letter?


The letter is just a bunch of words.
If I was advising her I would tell her to trust your ACTIONS not your words.
The same goes for YOU
My first post says to believe NONE of what she says and half of what she does.


So if my actions speak louder than words, than I would do the following:

Seek financial planning advisor (I have 2 now)
Find a Christian counselor who specializes in lie addiction.
Find a way to earn extra money to pay back my 401k


M-41
W-46
T- 17 years
M- 13 yrs
SS - 25 SD- 22 D 11
ILYBNILWY - 6/6/15
Status - DBing, GAL