Still here and need support

[poschan]

thanks for the input doodler, SadHub, and PacLove. I think that is good advice to just see how things go without making any black and white decisions as of yet. She did say today she has made up her mind about D - I know not to believe anything she says. This morning she asked for my help when d7 wasn't listening to her and I said what are you going to do when your alone? She quipped back that I don't help now really anyway...I think she is in for a big wakeup call when she moves out and sees how much I really do for this family. She also asked if d7 could be with her the first week in her new place to "acclimate". I thought it was a bad idea since she would be dealing with losing a parent (me) and in a new home rather than just losing a parent (WAW) if she were to stay with me the first week. The poor kids. I fell so bad for all of them that have to deal with selfish parents.