@Rose888 @coffee_ I thank you for your advice it is very helpful.

I am just not sure why this letter would not help. Am I not setting my WW straight?

Also there is a question of what do I do if she does not leave? I would have to move out (abandon the kids) and stay somewhere else (most likely my parents who happen to live 2 doors down.)

M-41
W-46
T- 17 years
M- 13 yrs
SS - 25 SD- 22 D 11
ILYBNILWY - 6/6/15
Status - DBing, GAL