Still here and need support

[PacLove]

Just to add to my previous reply... I think why I fall into the trap is that I want to offer "glimpses" into what she's missing. Therefore I don't schedule them but if the opportunity comes up I allow it... sort of taking a queue from the "lighthouse story"

<i>"Your offer them glimpses into that sanctuary at every chance you get...
you invite them towards it...let them know it is there as much as you can in a most subtle way...."</i>