Hi Sotto - want to jump over here to say thank you for all the wisdom and kind support you have always given to me. Your posts have helped so very much.
I will be checking in on you here.
Me 41, H 47, M 15 yrs, S11, S13 BD 1: 11/4/14 we work on it; really I pretzel myself BD 2: 3/31/15 H goes down to "dorm room" 8/15: H back to MBR 10/15: H back in dorm room 1/18: H files, now divorced