Thanks Guys.
I finished the documents and for most of them I have electronically, so it was relatively easy to upload to my L's file share. For a bunch of others, can't I just assert that my WW has equal access to all of the joint documents electronically? She can go get them herself! I'm sure she's going to say she had no knowledge of them for 18 years because I managed all of our finances. Um, that's because you were too lazy to do them?

Ugh. Going to have the call with my L today, I'm sure she's going to tell me to take the high road and prepare everything myself. Sigh.

In the middle of a five day stretch without my S11. It is a very strange custody arrangement we have, because of my son's sports activities, both of us see him and each other almost every day. On her days, I still go to his practices and games whenever I can to keep the connection with him. It's also fun to watch him as well. His Little League team ended up the season with 18 wins and 2 losses, so they are going to the TOC for the District. It won't be until the second week in June so it remains to be seen what we will do for the next three weeks. The head coach is a baller so he's probably going to practice 5 days a week if he can...
The Lexapro is working but this past weekend I am still feeling groggy in the mornings. On Saturday I slept until 10 am (S11's game was in the afternoon) and while I feel rested it's not a great feeling. Almost like a hangover this morning trying to get out of bed for work. It's been almost a month since I switched from Wellbutrin to Lexapro, I'm going to ask the pharmacist to see if she has any suggestions and whether I should lighten the dosage, etc. It's definitely making me hungry though but I've been watching what I eat and working out so I haven't ballooned up like I did with Paxil before.


Me-LBH, 48
Spouse-WW, 48
Married for 19 years
Son, 12
BD #1 - November 1998 (EA 7 months after wedding)
BD #2 - November 2015 (same XBF EA)
WW filed D February 2016
WW moved out April 2016