My gut is saying that you shouldn't pay for her car/insurance at least until you reach a point of legitimate piecing. Same for regularly cooking for her. I feel like that would make things too easy for her, and even though she may be back in the home if she is not remorseful/piecing you want her to have the opportunity to experience what losing you will really be like.

Nudity is one of the things I have kept shifting stance on since BD a couple months ago. I've gone through phases of sleeping nude or in shorts, wrapping a towel around my waist when she is nearby, to walking around commando like king of the world. I ended up deciding that "hiding myself" or "flaunting myself" didn't feel like the right approach. Currently I sleep in my comfy and stylish new underwear (because comfy), and in the morning I do whatever I need to get ready - I just do my thing while getting ready efficiently. After showering I don't blitz to get out of my birthday suit, but I don't linger naked either.

Good job on the healthy meal prep!


Me, WW - Upper 30s
BD - Apr 1 2016
EA - Apr 7 2016 (discovered; ongoing for months; did not confront right away)
Confronted wife about EA - May 17
Wife sent NC email to OM - July 11