Check out the tedtalk by Naomi Feil on validation. It is for old folks but the principles apply in any situation.

It is good to hear it out loud.

Me 46 Former W 46
D19 D7
BD Feb 2016
WAW moves out 4/16/16
D final 6/1/2017

It's time for me to start changin' the way I look at the world......and at myself. ~James Howlett aka Wolverine