Lyr - no your dibs arent canceled. Let me tell you a little tale about our past. We were married in 1991, and had a good life for 3 years. We had several bad miscarriages, and my W had an A in 1994 and we separated. We reconciled after a year, and went on with our lives. in 1996, I was seduced by someone 8 years my junior (and part of me went with it because of what she did).

Age is not a barrier to anything. You can be 40 and messed up, or 25 and present. It's all in you.

My best friend female wise right now is 8 years younger, but in some ways generations older than my wife.

Sorry to make you feel uncomfortable - not to scare you but I entered high school the year you were born and met my oldest, bested friend that year as well.

Hang in there.


as for the knight in shining armor - that's an affliction I have always been saddled with. As for the fatherly tones - I wanted a son as I dont know how to relate to a daughter.

Bill. "you are who you chose to be" - Iron Giant Link To CURRENT Sitch