Very true!
I even told her I'm sick of walking on eggshells
That's the problem with the in home situation
One minute she's completely nice and everything is great. The next she is distant and cold
That's why I've gone back and forth about staying in house or not
I've decided I'm going to stay and do what's best for S at the moment
I've just got to let go of these little reactions and realize they don't mean anything major
It's comstint changes and actions that have meaning

I'm definitely doing a lot more myself and I have let go of what she is doing and who she is doing it with
That is getting better for sure

M 37 W 30
S 7
Together 10 years
Married 9 years
BD: 12/12/12(W filed same day)
I moved to apartment 1/11/13
W and S moved to MIL 1/11/13
Peicing: 6/3/13
Reconciled: 7/2013
BD2: 4/20/16
still working on it