Thanks Coffee, it's a good reminder. I already had too high expectations. She is really angry because I told her Dad. She says he has nothing to do with it and I worried him unnecessarily. I told her that I was sorry, but that I did what I thought was right at the time. I told her that there is no right way to handle these things and that it could have been worse, she could have continued and gotten caught and then he would have found out anyway and been even more crushed, so it could have been worse. She also asked me for $80 today so she can pay her bills, I told her I would give them to her, but I have to set some sort of boundary around that.
