Agree with Roist , you clearly are still standing for your M and your family. W is lost and looking for an external cure for her perceived unhappy life. The cure is within and W will have to do the work to realise and accept this.

Huddy can continue to see how he feels as events change or not change

Hitting the gym 6 days and week , you'll have to change your name to Arnie !!!

One day at a time brother , take care. Rd