I really don't believe in D and she is planning to make me a product of such. A label as offensive as smoker, that is being applied to me. That is why I have to point the finger.
We all come here for that reason. This place is called divorce busting.
The best advice I can give is to detach and let go.
I know its hard to get your head wrapped around it all. Sometimes no matter what we do the best thing we can accomplish is to live a long, healthy and prosperous life. It is the best revenge.