Hi Phoebe, can I just say that your H's cheating is all about him. It in no way relates to your worth as a person. You are worthy of love.

Have you read any of Brene Brown's stuff or watched her TED talks? I found her incredibly helpful.

Take care, you're making good progress and are right where you need to be just now xx

T 13 M 7
Me 48 H 46
SS 15
BD 7.14 PA
D final 5.16 (H filed)

We receive & we lose, and must try to achieve gratitude & embrace with whole hearts whatever of life that remains after the losses - Dubus