It's totally OK, Painter. I absolutely get it. Today is my day to support you. Hang in there, lovely lady. Your H is truly a fool.

How about we all hang on the Island, and be quirky and not give a damn together?

H: 44, Me: 45
Married: 20 y Together: 25 y
no kids
Walk away: 12/15
Asked for temp separation 12/25/15
PA confirmed 3/16 (apparently neither the first, nor the last PA he has had)
H filed for D 5/16