And once again a whole lot of colorful adjectives are swirling around my head, just wanting to fly out to describe your H. Asking someone to lie for you is disgusting behavior, and asking his own daughter to do so, knowing how much it will mess her up, is beyond the pale.

And the OW in your home, petting your cat? Good grief. What a sh1t. Sorry, it slipped.

You keep right on taking those meds, Painter. That's why you have them, for days like these. I'm glad you are trying to get in to see your therapist soon. I have found that I feel better after I talk with mine. I'm not sure why, really, but something about talking to him calms me. I hope that your T does that for you, too.

I hope the meds help you get some rest. You need a few hours off from all of this.

(((Painter)))

P.s. My chicks say hello and to send you a dose of concentrated cuteness. Cheep, cheep.

H: 44, Me: 45
Married: 20 y Together: 25 y
no kids
Walk away: 12/15
Asked for temp separation 12/25/15
PA confirmed 3/16 (apparently neither the first, nor the last PA he has had)
H filed for D 5/16