betterm, My STBX thinks that her full time job is to be a SAHM . Stay focused on you and keep your balls!
at least yours had kids to take care of, mine just thought it was okay to be a Stay at home wife (with no kids)... This went on for a while during unemployment, which I was totally fine with, but when she couldn't find a job she wanted as it ran out, a lot of problems arose. She completely lost her path and confidence. Codependency hit hard.
