My STBX wanted me to do the same. She ran off to her parent's house also with clothes all over the place. My MIL has enabled my STBX her entire life. Not healthy. My STBX thinks that her full time job is to be a SAHM which MIL will enable if STBX gets custody of our boys.
Stay focused on you and keep your balls!
H-46 XW-38 T-7 M-6 S-9,8,8,6,4 S 11/30/15, I filed 12/8/15 EA 2/1/16 D dismissed 3/24/16 PA 3/18/16 confirmed 4/22/16 XW files for D 4/1/16 - D final 11/17/16 Finally moving forward...