Time for an update,

I took a break from the forum for a while to keep my head clear. Still don't really know what is going on.

I have been working on myself and GAL and its all going well. I get by day to day much easier now focusing on myself and working for what I want.

I am still stuck in limbo land and really don't know what to do next. My W has been gone for 4 months now and we have not discussed our MR at ALL since the day she left. I found this forum the day my W left so trying my best to follow steps but by waiting for her to bring up any discussions about our MR nothing has happened yet.

We are speaking most days and I'm being polite but not in instigating any contact. I really don't want to end up in the friend zone I think I will soon be forced to bring up the MR discussion because at this point she may just think I'm happy with how things are? I really don't know what to do.

If anyone has any thoughts feel free to share.


ME- 31 W-25
T-5 M-3
D2
ILYBNILWY and moved out - FEB16
W seeing someone else - JUL16