Phoebe, that is funny, the list of all the 'friends' you would need! I think it's like finding my H, never in my wildest dreams would I have imagined I'd find someone from my part of the country - I'm from Idaho, he's from Montana, who has traveled, can get by speaking French (I speak French) gets my sense of humor, knows about film, photography and likes to jump in cold rivers and lakes, can build a fire, camp, knows the stars and planets, trees and birds and plants etc. It can happen! maybe not all of them in one person, but enough so you don't need 7 friends! I ride a dirt bike, and I don't look like someone who does!