Listen to ciluzen. You're a nice guy so it feels awkward to tell your wife "no", but if you don't do it now, you'll pay for it later.
ummm, I think I already am... Even with coach conversation, they realize she's someone who's got her way all life, lived under the wings of her mom (who's bipolar, and I now know explains a lot as a lot of childhood lessons carry over into adult relationship problems - didn't know this before), had her way every time she wanted it. Had her way with me, I imploded, and now here we are.
Old habits die hard... (as I fire up a ciggie) haha! Jk, but man I'd love one or twenty one right now.
