hi Vanilla. I didnt see it that way. You're absolutely right. We go out as H/W or not at all.

How do you guys do it though? We are still living together, same bed, do things all the time together with kids.

Do i start to actively not be around her? like if shes home should i go out?

Me31 W31 M11yrs S6yrs
23Mar16-BD
9Apr16-W admitted EA w boss.
27Jun16-W Changed job and promised NC w OM.
14Jul16-Continued contact w OM.Start of Separation.
24May17-Divorced.