She texted back just ... "I would like to stay in the master"
Should my response be something like... "there's a whole half of the bed up for taking if that's where you want to sleep. I'll be on the other half though."
You could respond with something similar to "I'm comfortable in the master, so I'll continue to stay there." Don't go into further explanation. Keep it short and without emotion. She can't expect to sleep elsewhere some nights and then come home and expect you to move.
Listen to ciluzen. You're a nice guy so it feels awkward to tell your wife "no", but if you don't do it now, you'll pay for it later.
ummm, I think I already am... Even with coach conversation, they realize she's someone who's got her way all life, lived under the wings of her mom (who's bipolar, and I now know explains a lot as a lot of childhood lessons carry over into adult relationship problems - didn't know this before), had her way every time she wanted it. Had her way with me, I imploded, and now here we are.
Old habits die hard... (as I fire up a ciggie) haha! Jk, but man I'd love one or twenty one right now.
Anyway, she bailed. Texted, her clothes laying all over the place at her parents house (what's new?) and she's not feeling well, so doesn't feel like packing tonight. I just said, okay, and hope she gets feeling better. I'm feeling good. But really, was kinda looking forward to some extended time in my house alone...
My STBX wanted me to do the same. She ran off to her parent's house also with clothes all over the place. My MIL has enabled my STBX her entire life. Not healthy. My STBX thinks that her full time job is to be a SAHM which MIL will enable if STBX gets custody of our boys.
Stay focused on you and keep your balls!
H-46 XW-38 T-7 M-6 S-9,8,8,6,4 S 11/30/15, I filed 12/8/15 EA 2/1/16 D dismissed 3/24/16 PA 3/18/16 confirmed 4/22/16 XW files for D 4/1/16 - D final 11/17/16 Finally moving forward...
You all gotta quit talking about my balls! They get nervous and sweaty when they know people are talking about them (like the hear/noise itching theory). Haha!
On a more productive Note... People have been saying I'm losing too much weight. I knew I've lost some, but got on a scale today and Whoa! I'm at my high school weight! And not in a good way... My meeting with W on Tuesday struck a nerve when we hugged in the parking lot and she said, wow, you're so 'little'. I didn't like that.
Today I downloaded an app to track meals/calories. I've been working out, but not eating enough to counter the workout burn. Started a new exercise program tomorrow and will be eating no less than 2600 calories a day. Work on my P. I. E. S. physical work starts tomorrow. I need to put on some mass. Haha.
