Experiencing a little pain today. W and I talked about child custody and splitting assets. We are cooperating very well and the conversation is so easy. The conversation is easier than it has been in years. I've been GAL. I am now aware of healthy boundary setting and have been practicing my connection skills with other relationships and it is working really well. She has been sharing some feelings with me that I was in the dark about. Why couldn't we do this before? Why did all this hurt and destruction have to happen?