Jzmil, it does sting/hurt when they start going out when they didn't used to, but that's why you need to detach & GAL... You to can go out even though you didn't used to, since you can't stop him from doing so, the best thing you can do is find yourself and be concerned about what you are doing. I understand the struggle, I'm right there with you, but do as I say, not as I do smile. You will make it through this one way or another, it's best if you come out the other side a more confident, happier you.


M - 9 1/2 years
5/5/16 - Bomb drop - 3 week EA
10/31/16 - We sold house
01/10/18 - D Finalized