Excile, definitely no card, DO NOT SEND flowers with a note saying "remembering all the good years", or any other acknowledgement of the anniversary.... Call some friends and make plans to go out, do not sit home alone that night, it will be a hard night.
M - 9 1/2 years 5/5/16 - Bomb drop - 3 week EA 10/31/16 - We sold house 01/10/18 - D Finalized