Thank you everyone, I feel the group energy and support surrounding me.
Just home on a quick break from work and wanted to catch up on posts.
Have not heard from SD yet and that is very hard. I very much want to call H and confront him and get him to admit what he's done. I probably won't do that today.
M 16 yrs, WH62, P54 3 adult blended kids EA 11/13, BD1 6/14 PA fall 14, BD2 2/15 Piecing 2015, BD3 12/15 Separated 4/16 WH moved OW in 5/16 Divorced 6/15/17