One big thing for me RD, my sitch and yours; how much of the problem is simple stubbornness? An unwillingness to admit that a mistake has been made and that to return would cause them to risk embarrassment, which to some people is a real problem. How do we handle that?
Glad you had good fun with the kids!
M 45 W 52 SD22 S9 D8 BD 6 April 2015 Not living together 4 Dec 2015