My third post - please be nice

[collin]

Yesterday morning my W had to run to Chapel Hill to drop off a foster dog. She asked me if I wanted to go and I was trying to implement the rules on here (detaching, separating, etc...) so, I said No and she went on.

Well later on last night she got upset with me for "not being there for her" and "she shouldn't have to tell me". I explained to her that I was under the impression she was leaving me and moving out (she is) so I assumed she wanted her space...(you know,separation). I told her that if she wanted me to go she should've said that instead of posing it in a question of, "do you want to go?" Since I'm not a mind reader. She said that anyone who knew her wouldn't have to be to be told, they would know.

I was dumbfounded. I know things go up and down and change in an instant. But what the heck...?