A new crossroad reached

[mleigh4]

So, I was here checking on some posters real quick and H TM.

His mom has friends visiting and staying with her for 3 weeks. She had informed me and H of this via email at the beginning of the month to let us know she could not do Grammy day for the last 3 Thursdays this month. In the email, she also asked H to bring by S to meet her friends. I had laughed and thought, good luck with that!

Anyway, H just TM asking if he could take S with him to have lunch with these people, his mom, and his mom's stepson, wife and son.

I asked S, of course he has no desire to go. Big surprise there. I can just see his mom clucking in disapproval. My first thought was maybe I should encourage him for H, then I thought, wait a minute.

This is my time with S and this is not family visiting, these are strangers who S will never see again. H wants to play happy family guy with everyone. Well you know what buddy? Time for you to start living in reality. You have to go by yourself, and live with the fact that you don't have your son to introduce to them because you chose to tear your family apart and live separate lives, and your sons mom has him today. If it's that important to you, take S to meet them on your time, they have been here all month! It's time for H to live the life he chose. Glory hallelujah I finally get it!

I simply replied, sorry, we have plans.