Still at lake. Haven't spoke with W since then
But then the following text exchange happened:

W: "You and Neighbor are responsible for getting meat and a salad for dinner"
W: "Also need two lunchables and some fruit for S"
M: "Huh?
Neighbor W just called neighbir like 20 mins ago and said they were coming up here
I'm confused"
W: "They aren't coming up. Y'all are coming home and cooking dinner. Nothing to be confused about"
M: "Why are we cooking dinner?"
W: "Did you have a rough weekend? Am I asking too much of you?"
M: "I wasn't planning on leaving till 5 or 6"

She has never asked something like this
It seems like some sort of power struggle since I decided to have a me day
Just don't get it
What am I missing? Or am I reading too much into this?

M 37 W 30
S 7
Together 10 years
Married 9 years
BD: 12/12/12(W filed same day)
I moved to apartment 1/11/13
W and S moved to MIL 1/11/13
Peicing: 6/3/13
Reconciled: 7/2013
BD2: 4/20/16
still working on it