You mentioned friends and circles. I have learned to listen to others perspectives? But realize that advice taken from others that are not affected by the outcome of the advise the are giving about, is meaningless. If someone has no horse in the race, their opinion is moot. I try to keep that in my own circle, especially since most told me to walk away from my M years ago, even more so the last few years!


Ralph88
Me 40s W 30s, D5 D3 , M7 T9
2013 B drop 1, EA found
2016 B drop 2, EA/PA?
2/16 Physical Seperation
2/16 I filed for D
4/16 PA Confirmed