I will find and post the link, it's rather tongue in cheek.
Firstly if the wayward has a personality disorder they are going to treat the OP eventually in the same way they treated you. Mad dogs bite the hand that feeds them.
Secondly most As don't last 6 months and 35% don't even go one week. If a new A replaces an old one that's a serial offender, do you really want that guy or gal in your life. Don't you want better than that?
Thirdly, waywards go for those that are available, tacky, tacky, tacky, affair down. What prospect is that?
Finally, the wayward knows they messed up and they are ashamed and guilty. To deflect that they project outwards, it's your fault they cheated. Long trousers time, grow up wayward. Can you trust someone in that mode? Your can love and not trust, that's ok. Let them get their act together first before you let them in. You deserve a better partner don't you, one truly invested in an R with you. The wayward is in love with how they feel when the OP is with them. It's not about the OP but about their own selfish need for validation for their sorry soul. Waywards ultimately aren't happy bunnies, either they are dysfunctional or guilty.
So pretty pictures of an immature wayward mean nothing at all. Illusion to persuade the world of lurve that is mere smoke and mirrors. Do it with you OP, they will do it to you. Gradually we learn the waywardness has been in them all along, we failed to see it. Immoral is as immoral does. Actions speak louder than words. Cheating is a very selfish game, flaunting it shows entitlement and an OP who is brazen and nasty. Who wants to hurt another person, their family and often children? Only a scuzzy or scum more interested in one up. Want that in your life? Wayward you are welcome to it.
Hugs
V
Freedom is just another word for nothing left to loose. V 64, WAW
