Hi Phoebe, I hope today is a better day Sweetie. Now then, I'm lucky enough not to have ever seen a photo of H and OW together (yet!) And I have had the occasional peek at their respective FB pages (very poor idea I know!!)

As you say, these things tend to happen on crummy days and we choose to make ourselves feel a bit crummier.....I think sometimes we need to go through that in order to stop doing it at some point going forward.

I would echo what others say about the interactive stuff. We tend to feel so much more upbeat when we have stuff like that going on. One of the best things I have done has been some regular volunteering at a charity bookstore. I love that!! For me, being around books and people and helping those in the most desperate poverty in the process has been so rewarding. Have you thought about doing something like that? It needn't all be Meetups....

Take care anyway and I hope you have a better day xx

T 13 M 7
Me 48 H 46
SS 15
BD 7.14 PA
D final 5.16 (H filed)

We receive & we lose, and must try to achieve gratitude & embrace with whole hearts whatever of life that remains after the losses - Dubus