Well, I have all kinds of ugly descriptors running around in my head for your H right now, Painter, but I'll spare you the reminders. I'm guessing you've been thinking the same things all day.

I'm with JujuB. They deserve each other and you deserve so much better. The lying is despicable. I am so sorry. It's going to be hard for a while again, but you will come out on the other side, a whole person with your dignity and integrity intact.

Take your meds and try to sleep. May tomorrow bring you some new-found clarity.

(((((Painter)))))

H: 44, Me: 45
Married: 20 y Together: 25 y
no kids
Walk away: 12/15
Asked for temp separation 12/25/15
PA confirmed 3/16 (apparently neither the first, nor the last PA he has had)
H filed for D 5/16