So I got home after a meeting this morning and my W wasn't there. I got angry because she was going to be with OM(I know because I snooped). So I took the kids to hang out. I get a phone call asking where me and the kids are and I tell her. She proceeds to tell me that she wants to be texted whenever I go out with the kids. She had told me that in the past, but I wanted her to come home to an empty house so she could feel what it's like to be without them like it would be if we seperated. She then texts me that she can't believe I did that and that she sees how I will be with the kids (using them to hurt her) and that I need to drop it. I answered that I wasn't trying to hurt her and that I just wanted to get the kids out of the house, and that I have no problems texting her. When she comes home I am going to talk to her and tell her that I think she is overreacting and that I know exactly what she feels like to get home and not see the kids because she has done that to me. Thoughts? Is that manly enough?
