I agree with the dating criteria! You would think we would be desperate, but instead, are wary! So far, in dealing with men who have shown interest in me, I hit 2 must haves.
First, he must be someone who I feel comfortable being me around. I am a goofball and quirky and always held back around H.
Second, he must be family focused, hopefully will have kids of his own. One guy recently told me, "you need to get a sitter so we can go out and have fun." Instant turn off! Granted, I will not be introducing my son to just any guy anytime soon, however, I don't want someone wanting to get rid of him!
Who knows what is out there, hopefully I can find myself a Caliguy or Irish type
