Hi MLeigh, you are sounding in a really good place and I'm pleased for you. It's funny (well actually not) how MLCers sideline themselves in the lives of their nearest and dearest, but also want to be seen as the good guy/gal.

HaWho, I have to laugh at your questions. My divorce group chums and I have had some good fun with our 'virtual' prospective partner questionnaire...running to 537 or so probing questions....guaranteed to put off all but the most persistent dates...

Hope you ladies are having a great weekend! Xx

T 13 M 7
Me 48 H 46
SS 15
BD 7.14 PA
D final 5.16 (H filed)

We receive & we lose, and must try to achieve gratitude & embrace with whole hearts whatever of life that remains after the losses - Dubus