Want away wife

[blueboy]

To tell everyone what she is upto!

I did made a mistake 7 years ago and had a short affair and but held my hand up apologise, I have spent the last 7 years making amends in every way being a amazing husband and dad! Putting up with her put downs and bad behaviour!

She seem to think two wrongs make a right and its all about the children, just so she can hold her head high! Her words "I don't want to be seen leaving the family home"

I'm not prefect but have the balls to hold my hand up when I make a mistake!

[DDJ]

Hey blueboy, I just posted on betterm about dropping the rope. It's literally just walking away, physically, emotionally, financially. Offer no support and focus on yourself.

An eye for an eye makes the whole world blind. If you can walk away then do it. If you can kick her out, definitely do it. But do not cover up her affairs. Don't let her spin her story.

[blueboy]

I've walked away phyically, financially, find emotionally diffficult!

We are live separately from the weekend!

[blueboy]

Wife want to talk about how we told the kids and now gone missing in car crying!

Told me she love me, than rang to say it was in a do anything for you way!

[blueboy]

Well we have told the children, really need to drop the rope and work on myself and my 3 beautiful children!

[DDJ]

Blueboy, as long as your conscience is clear and you know that you're doing what is right then you can't go wrong.

Focus on your kids, literally, take no note of your WW. Acknowledge her, but no note.

[blueboy]

Can't believe, I'm 40 years old and having to rebuild me life from rock bottom!

4 weeks ago I know where I was going and had plans now I living day by day!

[DDJ]

Would you rather rebuild at 40, or be stuck in the same rut you were actually in.

[blueboy]

I love my wife, I believe deep down she love me!

They way I'm viewing it is ether I look after myself and move on our she realises that she love me and shows willing to sort.

Only time will tell!

[blueboy]

Screw up, let the W talk me into change plans with kids, acted like a doormat this most stop! Also used girls as a opener, the girls want to send quality time with you!

Soften me up texting me about sons football tourenment all day!

God, got it detach and go dark!