Thank you for stopping by my thread. I have caught up on your thread and I am so sorry you are going through this. To make changes like this while your husband is covertly giving you this ultimatum is just so challenging and I am heartbroken for you.
As you picked up on my thread, my husband had issues with Ed. I never ever thought of leaving him or even flirting with other men because of it. I was really frustrated and felt rejected as well. Regardless of what your husband decides, don't forget your value. You raised 4 of his children and now he decides he wants something different? This is about him, not you. The fact that that you are seeking to get help to restore your marriage only furthers your value
Why not schedule an appt for you and husband with a sex therapist ?