So I got home last night around 9:30pm and W was trying to study. She started talking about how she hasn't got anything done and hasn't been able to focus. I did my best to listen, validate and empathize. But I could have done better. I don't think I did awful, I just think I interjected too much and also hung around conversation too long. I guess this is something for me that is gonna take a lot of work and patience.
Also, why is it when the situation gets like this do I always want to text or talk to W. Here I am at work this morning and I just want to text her and check in.
Before I would never want to all the time.


M 37 W 30
S 7
Together 10 years
Married 9 years
BD: 12/12/12(W filed same day)
I moved to apartment 1/11/13
W and S moved to MIL 1/11/13
Peicing: 6/3/13
Reconciled: 7/2013
BD2: 4/20/16
still working on it