Agreed - find one or two close friends to discuss with. Maybe an Alanon friend.
I am glad I wasnt discussing my sitch all over town 5 years ago, now 5 years later I am catching up long time friends regarding what happened. It is much easier now discuss and its a much clearer story, much less muddled by emotions.
---- M 39 H 35 D5,D4 M 4 T 9 ILYBNILWY 5/18/11 Left 7/11/11 Divorced 12/1/13