I would suggest that you seek out one or two friends to talk to about your situation. The rest of your friends...stick to general topics an leave the relationship issues at home. The same would apply w/your family. The more you talk about what he's saying or doing w/family and friends, the harder it will make it for him to return to the relationship. Many of the MLCers find it is easier to just move on than to face the people who know about what he/she did during their crisis.
Also, people mean well and will tell you to divorce him, move on and take him to the cleaners for what he's done. Take what they way w/a grain of salt because they've not walked in your shoes and do not understand the situation that you are in.
If he contacts you, you don't have to pick up the phone or respond to a text message right then and there, but at some point in the day, you may want to return the call, but that's up to you.
Try to enjoy your weekend.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
