It is amazing how complex the parenting concept really is. Stuff I considered good parenting, experts explain why it isn't good long term. So in essence no matter what you do there is an expert to say why you shouldn't!!!
That being said I agree we have more access to more information than ever before. I have opened my eyes and don't intend to reshut them . I think many people live their lives with blinders on and that catches up with them. That is seen here with most newbies. No going back to that.
Thanks for your support and kind words
R 25 years M 14 years S11 & S13 Working on it alone since Oct 2014 M in trouble a lot earlier (~2 years) Feb 2016. 1st R chat in a yr. Next R chat Aug'17 Still together