Well I was just sitting at home visiting with a friend and out of the blue I get a text from H @ 830 (he had been at the bar since 4pm) so I can safely he assume he is drunk at this point.
1st text stated "what the h3ll are you trying to do". I went to respond and decided that better not to
then get this one "You are sending me into a panic attack. You not want me to be happy
Then this one " I want a divorce. I told you that in the last session "

Well I have no idea where this was coming from. I have not talked to
h sinc counseling. H has not text me anymore tonight.

Then D came home and said she told OW that my dad is still married and is going to marriage C with my mom. So I don't know that is what caused this because OW said that wow that is not what he has told me. I hope may e that this is the start of the end. I know I can't do anything but to pray. Also I don't know what to think about the text stating he wants a divorce he has never uttered those words before. Well 10yrs ago he did but we never separated them. H was always in the house. My anxiety is extremely high. My heart is hurting just trying to beat normally.
I went and got some melatonin to try to get some sleep.

wife of an addict
M 39 H 39
D18 D 16
Together 19 M17