The vet's will show up. My advice to you is LISTEN TO THEM. This is a very serious situation and you need to show no fear and follow their advice. She is disrespecting you BIG TIME. No Respect, No love. This can be fixed. You can do this, but you have to go "all in" or it is all for not. Just take a deep breath, step back, and don't do ANYTHING right now. Keep posing and wait for the advice.