I think sex is monumental issue in relationships. I separate it from love languages. . I still feel a lot of compassion for husband because i understand how that would effect the male ego. But i also kind of just gave up. stopped flirting and pursuing and dressing nice. Nagged about eating healthy and exercise and changing job to decrease stress. When we first met I was shamelessly flirtatious and more of the pursuer. I think he wanted that from me again and perhaps that was his need. Hard to be like that under circumstances though.
