And J, we've been down this road before, I understand there is a large number of relationships in which this is reversed and that it is especially difficult because it is minimized in society.
This goes BOTH ways and isn't gender specific. I don't want to start a war on this, we've talked about it before. I can't compare how it feels to me with how it felt to you. I think this is a monumentally important factor for both genders. I was talking this way strictly because it was Rose asking.
Me:38 XW:38 T:11 years M:8 years Kids: S14, D11, D7 BD/Move out day: 6/17/14, D final Dec 15